1. Moving Out of the Comfort Zone:
Asking a new partner to do something that she`s never done before can be frightening for her . Of course this all depends on how comfortable she with her sexuality. Rather than asking for her to do something out of the blue, ask her beforehand if she has ever tried it, that way you can get a feel for her comfort level.
2. Unexpectedly Knocking Backdoor:
Women have different ideas of anal play-some love it, while others hate it. So, until you know how she feels about it, you shouldn`t go there. Don`t even let a finger stray back there because that is guaranteed to pretty much scare her.
3. Letting Your Tongue Run Away With You:
Dirty talk can really spice things up, but in the heat of the moment all kinds of things can come out. While it`s one thing to whisper a fantasy into your partners ear, it`s another thing to spill your desires in graphic detail like you`re possessed.
4. Whipping Out the Sex Gear:
Introducing your stash of sex toys to your new partner should be carefully timed. And if you haven`t mentioned them in a prior conversation, then you definitely should keep them out of the way for the first time you have sex. You`re going to have to ease her into the idea before you bring out all your toys.
5. Pain Play:
Biting, hitting and tightening your grip around her is a sure sign to send your new partner running for the kills. While some people do get pleasure from rough sex and pain play, most people will probably think that you`re a psycho if your doing it the first time you have sex. It`s more than likely she will probably think that you`re a rapist!