There is no arguing that because of the Internet we are in contact with many more people then we`d ever be in contact with in our every day real life. The wide range of potential dates we meet in online dating sites, even people we know we might never really meet in person, opens us up to a wide range of personalities, helps us understand better a greater population of people then just our neighbors or the usual hopefuls we might see at the local bar.
Then there is to the wide range of interests, sexual or not, one can surf for on the net. Just coming into contact with ways of thinking and acting foreign to us might shed some light on understanding, might open us up to possibilities, might not only increase our chances for better sexual fulfillment, make us better lovers, but also simply just make us more willing to accept, listen to, approaches to the world far and away different then our approach.
It`s not simply quantity though, it is quality we all want when making our lives better. Having sex with many lovers doesn`t necessarily make us better lovers because of such a rigorous experience, but it is the quality of the fucks that make them worthwhile to us. Meeting a lot of people on line tickles us to the possibility of not so much meeting the hoards of people we chat with but to understanding them, enriching the quality of our lives by what we are exposed to , what we experience, surfing.
Being a good business partner, a loving mom or dad, a good spouse and certainly a good lover, the most important skill we can cultivate is being a good listener. Exposure to all the people, ways of living life, even fetishes available to us on the net will only help us to be better communicators, and better understanders.