All guys are into sex-don`t hold it against him: if you think he`s only in the relationship for sex just because he wants to have it all the time, you could be very wrong. Most guys are into sex and it`s constantly on their minds. He may really enjoy being in a relationship with you and may care a lot about you, but he might not be able to control his mind when it comes to thinking about you naked. Many girls think that withholding sex is a good test to see if he still wants to hang out with you, but this is totally unfair to him! Instead, there are a few questions you can ask yourself.
How to tell if he`s only in it for sex: If you`re serious about believing he only wants to be with you because of the sex, then here are a few questions to ask yourself:
- Do you engage in other activities with him?
- How does he treat you outside the bedroom?
- How does he treat you in front of friends and family?
- Do you hang out together with his friends and family?
- Is he interested in what you have to say or what is going on in your life?
- Does he call you late night only for booty calls?
- Does he come by only for sex?
If you answer yes to most of these questions then you might have a problem on your hands. If you answer no to a majority of these questions, then he probably enjoys dating you and having sex with you. Guys that only want sex tend to not hide it very well at all. He wont want to hang out with you, he will go straight for the booty call at 2 am, he wont call or text you to chat, he will always suggest sex right away.
What to do if he only cares about sex: If your guy fits the bill or someone who only wants sex you need to figure out what to do with this. If the sex is great and you would otherwise be single, then you could keep him as a booty call while you continue to date and look for someone else, or if you`re not into that you can break it off with him.