A lot of us are wondering why some people would do something so dangerous so we are going to take a look at why it can be desirable to many people.
First, it can increase sexual pleasure. There is a sudden loss of oxygen to the brain which increases light headedness and giddiness, all of which heightens a sexual experience. With the lack of oxygen, combined with the endorphins released at orgasm, a lack of oxygen can induce a semi hallucinogenic states called hypoxia. It can be as powerful as cocaine.
A relationship psychologist says that the pleasure becomes so addictive. "Because it`s so strongly tied to physicality, it has a huge impact on the body," she says, "It`s like taking a drug. As with all addictions, when you`re not doing it you start to fantasize about doing it. You know exactly what you`re getting yourself into, but at the end it doesn`t matter."
It is a known fact that people who practice this have risk oriented personalities. It is estimated that there are between 500-1000 deaths from this per year in the US. They also tend to be predominately male.
A renowned sexual therapist says bondage and sado-masochistic fetishes are often subconsciously related to childhood trauma. A lot of the people who are involved with this type of act are often from broken homes where they had no or little parental influence. She believes it makes people feel like they`re in total control. "It allows them to feel absolved of any responsibility, guilt or worry. It`s about a struggle with life. They could work through their issues in a normal way, of course, talking to counsellors or using self help books."
Ultimately, it is a very dangerous practice, so if you or someone you know is involved with it, you need to throw up a red flag and help this person before it is too late.