Sports Bars: You figure that it’s a bar, not a club, so the people are more laid back and relaxed. The girls are probably more open to casual hook ups and you feel comfortable there so it should be easy. In reality, bars are the toughest places to pick up ladies for a one night stand because:
- Her friends are there watching her. They’ll judge her if she goes home with a guy.
- Other people see her there every week and if she goes home with you, she’ll seem like a slut.
- She probably just wants to hang out and grab a drunk with a few friends, not get approached by some horny stranger.
So, if you want to meet a girl at a bar, you’ve got your work cut out for you. Approach her with friendly energy, like you already know her. Jump right into the conversation and talk to her and her friends before you pull her away.
Dance clubs: You figure the only reason a woman would get dressed up like that and get drunk is if she wanted to meet guys. However, some girls actually go to clubs to dance with their friends and those ladies don’t want to be bothered. However, there is an obstacle you didn’t predict:
- The club scene has its own rules and if you’re not in it, you will stick out like a sore thumb.
- The hottest women in the clubs are all in the club scene and know all of the important people. If you aren’t in the scene, she can’t go home with you. Its negative points to her credibility in the scene.
Meeting women online: You figure that a lot of women don’t like bars and clubs and that there must be plenty of chicks online. However, it’s tough as hell to meet women because:
- Women are bombarded with messages.
- Imagine every time you logged into an internet dating site and there were 30 messages waiting for you; you would be self absorbed.
- These women are itching for a man to commit to a long and steady relationship before she has sex with him.