Waiting to get in the mood: Many people in dating relationships wait to get in the right mood before having sex. Waiting for the mood to strike will definitely make for an incredibly hot evening, and the chances of it actually happening are few and far between. For many people, day to day life gets in the way of sexual intimacy and it`s difficult to get into the mood after a long day at work. Instead of waiting for the mood to hit you, try setting a date for sex and do it whether you feel like it or not.
Foregoing trying something new: If you are stuck in a "comfort zone" you`re certainly not alone. Break out of your rut by trying new things instead of sticking to what you know. Use your creativity! No matter what you do, don`t get stick doing the same over and over in the bedroom; it`s time to mix it up.
Thinking sex education is for beginners: People who have been doing it for a while seem to believe that reading up on sex or how to give their partner an orgasm is for beginners. Instead of thinking that you already know how to push your partners pleasure buttons, try ready a little bit on how to go down on your partner to get them begging for more.
Thinking sex is a means to an end: After being with someone for a while you stop relishing every moment you`re naked with your partner. You`ve seen her naked a thousand times and this can often put you in a very compromising situation. This usually leads people to feel less like taking their time with foreplay and more like doing it just to get an orgasm.
Withholding sex: Women are notorious for withholding sex from their lovers when they`re angry. Doing this to punish your guy wont do a damn thing besides keeping you from having an amazing orgasm. Instead, tell him what you`re upset about instead of being passive aggressive. Everyone knows that some of the best sex is after a huge fight!