1. They Spend WAY TOO MUCH time online. Although it is rare to not catch your partner online, it is a problem if they are online all the time like they were a teenager. Also, pay attention to what time they usually use the computer. If they wait until you are asleep, then you may have a problem.
2. They Have Top Notch Passwords Encoded On Their Accounts – If your partner has a password just to sign in to use the browser then that might be a sign of infidelity. Why would they need a password just to sign on. Are they scared that you will see their password history? Also, pay attention to how they meticulously always log off when they use their email accounts. If they don`t have anything to hide, then they don`t have a reason to conceal their passwords at all times.
3. They Use The Computer After You`ve Gone To Bed. Pay attention to what time they usually use the computer. If they wait until you are asleep, then you may have a problem.
4. They Exhibit Nervous Behavior When You`re Around The Computer. Do you ever notice that your partner immediately closes the browser of turns of f the computer whenever you approach? This is panic and unexplainable behavior. We consider it a significant indicator of a deviant behavior. Now, bear in mind your spouse may be viewing pornography and fear reprisal. This may explain the need for panic.
5. The computer and monitor are always positioned away from your sight. Pay attention to how your partner positions his laptop. Does he change seats to another couch across from you every time he logs on? Does he always make sure you can`t see what he is typing? This is an obvious sign of deception.
6. They Always Clear Web History and Browse Caches. Every good cheater knows that the first thing they have to do is clear their browser history. If you sign on to use the computer and notice that the browser history is always blank, then you have reason for concern.
7. Very Defensive When You Ask Them To Log Out. “When are you coming to bed?” “We really need to go, now, what’s taking so long?” “Can’t you do that later?” Have you asked these types of questions? Teenagers often become “obsessed” with instant messaging. If you have kids who use the computer, you know. They have trouble walking away from the PC. This same desire or need displayed by your spouse is cause for alarm. A compulsive, defensive pattern of behavior shows a strong need to continue. You need to know why.
8. Shares personal information, photos or events with strangers in emails, chatrooms or while instant messaging. Setting up a profile for instant messaging is commonplace.Maybe it’s time to track this information with software that collects this data. Today more courts are allowing emails and computer usage data as evidence. It’s advisable to consult an attorney in your state beforehand!
9. Plays online games and frequents “personals” chatrooms. This is where it starts. Play a few games, win or loss but then we need to chat. Well if chatting is fine, why not include your spouse? You can’t, so why do it?
10. Never Mentions You On Their Social Media Accounts- Most people love doting on their loving spouses or significant others online, if you have find that your spouse never mentions you on Facebook or Twitter, it is probably because they want to appear single to others.