Sunday, May 20, 2012

The Politics of Online Dating

The Politics of Online DatingFinding dates and sex online may seem easy in the days of a social revolution, however just like high school, there are certain politics one must follow when pursuing an interested party for online chat sessions.

Many women feel disappointed about the matches they make online and it all has to do with what they put on their online dating profiles. With just a few mistakes, you can attract someone who is just interested in sex when you are actually wanting to pursue a long-term relationship. It`s so easy to meet someone you are not compatible with and if you took the time to flesh out your profile, then you will keep the losers at bay. Here is a simple go to guide in how to pursue online dating romances:

1. Make your online dating profile clearly reflect your needs and personality. Who are you? What do you want in a partner? What are your passions? These are a few questions that should be answered specifically. In order to properly articulate your needs, wants and interests, you need to put TIME into putting them out there. Try writing these important factors of yourself in 25 words or less. If you can`t possibly do that, how do you expect to meet the most compatible person for you when YOU don`t even know what and who you want in life?

2. Once you have figured out your needs, wants and interests and have expressed them in great detail, do NOT meet anyone whose basic needs, wants and interests don`t match yours…no matter how attractive they are.

3. To prevent yourself from being another sexual conquest, make sure you know how much time you need and what you need in your relationship before intimacy comes into play. Don`t give it up quickly to someone who is only interested in your profile photo. Build a relationship instead. If he is worthy of your affections, he will wait for you.