Single men and women live for the potential of dates, the promise of sex, the future of meeting someone off adult personals and finding out what there is to find out about them. The promise of a possibility is what leads us time and again to search for a significant other or even just a good fuck; if we were truly waylaid at every failed love affair there`d only even be on in our lives! The true nature of want makes us romantic, what fuels our hearts as well as pumps our libido is hope. Even in the middle of an affair that drags them down, so many people stay time and again with the promise of a new day.
The well-timed ended relationship could stop us though as much as fill our minds with dreams of what-might-have-been. As much as we can imagine a whole bunch of future moments with an ex that are very much like those moments we had, and no matter how much we can enjoy some masturbatory fodder from our memories, just the mere fact that we pine so greatly or even simply consider some what-ifs might stop us dead in our tracks from entertaining the thought of going at it again, of allowing the possibility of a love in our life. Less a feeling of being burned once and not wanting to tickle the flame of a steady relationship once again, it`s simply that too many of us get stuck in imaging what life could have, might have, should have been like that we don`t make a life for ourselves right now, or even consider one with anyone new.