Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Flirting Can Be More Than Just Fun

Flirting Can Be More Than Just FunWe all have our own flirting techniques and according to a new study, success in romance depends in part on understanding your own person "flirting style" Whether or not you prefer sliding up to a stranger in a bar to online chat or you`d rather just sit back and wait for an object of attraction to approach are both distinctions that can help you control and maintain your future relationships.

Jeffrey Hall from the University of Kansas recently conducted a survey regarding styles of flirting among 5,100 dating adults.

"Knowing something about the way you communicate attraction says something about challenges you might have had in your past dating life," he says,"hopefully this awareness can help people avoid those mistakes and succeed in courtship."

Apparently there are five different styles of flirting: physical, traditional, polite, sincere and playful.

Physical: people express their interest in having sex with a potential partner and can often develop relationships, have more sexual chemistry, and a greater emotional connection to their partners.

Traditional: believe that men should make the first moves and women assume for passive roles.

Playful: these flirters are usually more concerned with boosting the own self esteem.

Hall says the early part of developing a relationship is important to the success of long term relationships, including marriages.